Happy Birthday, Josie!
Sunday, February 12, 2012

Our not-so-little pup turned ONE last week.

We didn't do anything too wild and crazy to celebrate her big day, but she did get her first spa treatment.

And let me just say...it was not my idea. My husband can take full credit for looking up the most "masculine" pet spa in our area (sounds sort of like an oxymoron to me, but whatever makes him feel better), and treating her to a bath, blow dry, ear cleaning, and nail trim. Avery requested multi-colored nail polish, but that's where Eric drew the line.

It's amazing how much she has changed in one year.


She is a bundle of energy and absolutely adores Wyatt, Avery, and anyone else who walks through the door. Her favorite activities include fetch, catch, and water retrieving. She can destroy a brand new squeaker toy in about 30 seconds flat, and she'll do absolutely anything for a spoonful of peanut butter or a squeeze of easy cheese. Or beer.


Like father, like dog.

When you meet her for the first time, she'll lick you like a popsicle on a hot summers day. Yes, she is a licker. Annoying yes, but hey, it's better than having a crotch sniffer.


Happy 1st Birthday, Josie Edgar!







Who the heck reads this stuff?
Monday, January 30, 2012

Did I ever tell you about the time Eric and I started a book club for just the two of us?

I didn't?

Surely, I must have.

Oh, you're right. Now I remember. That's because said book club only lasted about two weeks.

You see, my husband and I share many of the same interests. Reading being one of them. Which is why it seemed like such a grand idea at the time to start a mini book club in an effort to spend more quality time with one another. Awesome, right? There was really only one major hiccup. What books do we read?

Just to give you a glimpse into where I'm going with this, when I shop for books on Amazon.com (Yes, we still buy books. Actual books. With pages and everything), these are the types of books you'll see in my Cart:




When Eric shops for books on Amazon.com, these are the types of books you'll see in his Cart:


Ah yes. Now you're starting to understand.

You may be thinking, even with reading interests on completely opposite ends of the spectrum, there is surely some way to find a happy medium, right?

Uh, not really.

And that was the end of that.

Scrabble. We just need to stick to Scrabble. He gets to show off his unlimited vocabulary while I drink wine. Everybody wins.

(I suppose I too would be a walking dictionary if I read more of the complete stories on the Arctic, but I'd rather embrace my remedial side, thank you very much).

So the next time you're walking through that section in the bookstore--you know, the one that makes you stop, shake your head, and wonder aloud "Who the heck reads this stuff?"--I hope you'll think of me and get a kick out of the fact that my husband likely owns most of them.






Happy New Year!
Saturday, December 31, 2011

New Years Eve. Blah.....

Historically for me, New Years Eve has been the one holiday celebration I enjoy the least. Okay, that's not true. It just plain sucks. Year after year.

Eric shares my sentiment on this, which is why he'd rather work. Year after year. Apparently, seeing stroke cases in the E.R. is much more appealing than seeing nut cases make fools of themselves at some lame party. I don't blame him.

There is one thing I do look forward to on New Years Eve, and that's sitting down at my computer and composing the final blog post of the year, reflecting on all that our family has accomplished over the past 365 days. For me, there's no better way to ring in a brand new year. And it's probably the only way you can get me to stay awake until midnight. So here it goes.

The Edgar Family Highlights of 2011:

1. Our first full year in Oklahoma brought record-breaking snowfall, violent tornados, and the hottest summer on record. Not to mention the 5.6 magnitude earthquake that bolted us out of a dead sleep last month, the largest quake to hit the state. Ever.

Here's to hoping 2012 has Mother Nature picking on someone her own size. But if not, you can bet the Edgar family is already armed with snow shovels and bags of rock salt just in case.


2. We welcomed our first pet into the family--an 8-week-old yellow lab pup we named Josie. Thanks to her, our new home has been broken in quite nicely. The gnawed-on baseboards and crown moulding really give it a nice touch, a little bit of character which was lacking in its otherwise pristine state. Not quite what I had in mind when I signed on for a family pet, but hey, it is what it is. She certainly has her flaws, but don't we all! She makes up for it when she looks at us with those big brown eyes, or throws the kids into hysterics by licking them from head to toe. She's a keeper, this one.

Here's to surviving puppyhood! May the new year bring our family more dog-filled memories. And new baseboards.


Then


Now

3. This was the year Wyatt discovered the iPad. And Angry Birds. Enough said.


4. This was a big year for Eric the Outdoorsman. He bagged his first deer, as well as an antelope and wild hog. And do you know what is most awesome? For the very first time in our 8 years of marriage, we will have dead animals adorning the walls of our house (granted, we're only talking about a few mutually agreed-upon walls, but still). Every girls dream, let me tell you. He also spent an entire week fishing in Alaska and brought home over 65 lbs of fresh salmon and halibut, which now reside in our freezer alongside the plethora of other wild game. It's a shame that 98% of my recipes call for chicken. Fancy that.

Here's to a willingness to try new things in 2012. Anyone care to join us for an antelope burger?


5. This year I've experienced for the first time what life is like as a stay-at-home-mom with both kids in school full time. Many people asked me what I planned to do with my time. My response was always the same. "Whatever the heck I want. Maybe for the first time in 6 years, I will actually be able to complete a project--or just a simple thought--from start to finish in one sitting!" Others predicted I would get bored, but I never feared that would happen. I generally have no problems finding something to do. And as much as I have fully intended to sit around and eat bonbons at least a few times since school started in August, I've managed to keep myself busier than I could have ever imagined. While I still can't seem to fit in the time to read my favorite books, update my blog, or keep my house clean, I always make time for fitness. I run a lot. I recently finished the Tulsa Run (9.3 miles) and would really like to run at least one destination half marathon a year, starting in 2012. I also discovered Pilates this year, and it may just be my new obsession. Needless to say, I'm thoroughly enjoying having a bit of free time during the day to focus on myself again. Being without my kids during the day also affords me the opportunity to miss them, which I had never experienced before. It makes our time together in the evenings and weekends much more meaningful. I love that!

Here's to living a healthy lifestyle in 2012 and finding some time to pamper ourselves.



6. Avery has grown leaps and bounds in 2011. Since she was 3 months old, she has suffered from severe stranger anxiety. In fact, this time last year her teachers were very much concerned about her confidence level, and her ability to relate to her peers. But there was something about her fourth birthday that flipped a switch in her. She is now incredibly confident and makes friends easily. I love watching her smile when she talks about her friends, and listening to her giggle uncontrollably at the mention of her favorite boy in class.

Here's to another worry-free year filled with happiness, laughter, and friendship. Food for the soul!


7. I was really hoping I would be able to share 10 highlights, but it is now after midnight and officially past my bedtime. And I take my beauty sleep seriously! But before I sign off, I just want to share one final highlight of the year, and one that means so much to me. I was very ambivalent, to say the least, about moving back to my hometown. When I moved away 16 years ago, I never looked back and never wanted to. So making the decision to raise my kids in the same community has been quite an adjustment for me. But I have to say, there are some pretty amazing people who live in small town america whom I've had the privilege to meet and get to know over the past year and now I couldn't imagine living anywhere else. I never imagined I'd love it as much as I do and I'm so glad my children will get to experience life in a small town with such a strong sense of community. I'm so grateful for the old friends I've reconnected with and the new friendships just starting to blossom. You all have truly made us feel at home.

Here's to hoping and believing the blessings of 2012 are as abundant as 2011.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!







Pinkalicious!
Saturday, November 19, 2011

Today I learned something new about my six-year-old son.

Musical theatre makes him want to claw his eyes out.

(Especially when he's one of only 3 boys in a theatre filled with pig-tailed pretties prancing around in pink tutus and waving their magic wands in anticipation of seeing their favorite storybook character come to life on stage.)

Ah, yes. Pinkalicious was in the house. And Wyatt was beyond thrilled.



Okay, so maybe he was a little less than excited. The drama queen in the family, however, was...shall we say...tickled PINK!





I love it that my kids are finally at an age which allows us to enjoy (or suffer through) activities like this together. It often makes for interesting conversation during the car ride home. And for the record, when asked who his favorite character was, Wyatt responded with an enthusiastic "all of them!" So either he really enjoyed the show more than he let on, or his daddy has already trained him that when it comes to women, it's always best to just tell them what they want to hear.

Considering Avery herself is quite the little performer, I have a feeling Wyatt may have many more opportunities to cultivate a love (or at least an appreciation) of the the performing arts in the years to come. Regardless of what she does, whether it be belting out a song on stage or scoring soccer goals, this little girl can always count on me to be her #1 fan.










Fall Break Getaway
Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Every time my kids are out of school on break, I have these grand ideas to spend good quality time together as a family, letting them set the agenda. Without fail, however, life (okay...housework) just always seems to get in the way and quality time takes a back seat. As a result, I have two bored, bickering gremlins ready to claw each other's eyes out. But boy, do my floors sparkle!

I've finally realized that despite my best intentions, the only way to truly get the most out of a 5-day break from school is to get the heck out of town, where dirty dishes and dust particles are someone else's problem. So last Tuesday, I picked the kids up from school, popped a movie in the DVD player, and fumbled my way through the navigation system. Moments later, we were burning rubber on a southbound highway headed straight for the Lonestar State. Destination: Grapevine, Texas!

The first item on the agenda was to hit the new LegoLand Discovery Center. If you've been following this blog for a while then you're very much aware of Wyatt's obsessive tendencies. He has time in his life for only one obsession at a time, and right now, it's Legos. He speaks of nothing else, dreams of nothing else, and spends countless hours designing his own imaginative creations. If you ask him today what he wants to be when he grows up, he'll emphatically reply, "an engineer for Lego."

And here is your future engineer hard at work building a super speedy rocket racer...



...while Avery entertains guests in the Princess Palace with her mad karaoke skills.


Building legos is serious business for Wyatt. There is no doubt in my mind he carefully considered each and every piece that went into constructing his super speedy rocket racer. But would it stand up against models created by some of the other young lego enthusiasts? Wyatt's heart was nearly beating out of his chest as the competitors lined up at the start. "On Your Mark. Get Set. Go!"


By this time, beads of sweat had formed over both of our brows as we anticipated the results.

Wait for it.....Wait for it....


SCORE!!!

He's so over-the-top. It's part of what makes Wyatt, Wyatt.


Meanwhile, Avery is still rocking out to Miley Cyrus.


The little pop star did end up taking a break from singing to build a few lego creations, but she seemed much more interested in making friends and carrying on imaginary conversations with them.

Constantly talking and singing to herself. It's part of what makes Avery, Avery.

We easily spent the entire day at the LegoLand Discovery Center. When asked if they had a good time, Wyatt responded with an enthusiastic "It was off-the-hook, AWESOME!"


The following day, we shopped until we dropped at the Grapevine Mills Mall. One thing you should know about me--if you don't already--is that I hate to shop. Let's just say in the past year I've shopped the mall in Grapevine TX more than I have the mall in Tulsa OK. And I can certainly count on one hand the number of times I've ever brought my kids with me to a mall (and that includes trips to see Santa). But nevertheless, we were on vacation. And we were all in need of shoes. Puma's, Skechers, Vans...Oh, My! We were definitely in shoe heaven at the Grapevine Mills Mall. We also took a couple of breaks to ride the carousel,



and run like hamsters in these strange water Bobbles,
("Hey kids, I'm going to get some coffee. See you in an hour!")


but at the end of the day we walked out of that place with bags and bags of...well...shoes!! It was awesome. The entire day, Wyatt walked through the mall shaking his head in disbelief that I was allowing them to do and buy whatever they wanted. "Well that's what happens when you're on vacation, Buddy!" He learned a few days later on the car ride home that my generosity was indeed short-lived when he was denied a stop at the Dairy Queen for his daily dose of ice cream. "Nope," I said. "Vacation's over. Mommy's back to being a crab. Sorry."

I can't imagine how on earth he was interested in ice cream after his attempt to devour the famous Lava Cake at Rainforest Cafe the night before.

Goodness gracious, I feel sick just looking at it.

He made a valiant attempt, but sadly lasted only a few bites. Avery felt the effort was deserving of a kiss nonetheless (it doesn't take much these days), but Wyatt's strong aversion to girl cooties had him running for the hills.



We concluded our 4-day little rendezvous at Six Flags Over Texas. So fun!

We were a little limited on the rides we could ride since Avery was just shy of 42 inches, but we somehow managed to close the park down at 11PM with rides still on our list. Perhaps we would've made it to all of them had Mommy not insisted on a character drawing of her two darlings, but seriously, it's one of Six Flags' best souvenirs in my opinion.


We had such a blast. Grapevine is such a great little destination for young families. It's not the first time we've been there and I'm pretty sure it won't be the last.






I'm having blog-abandonment issues.
Monday, October 3, 2011

I can't tell you how many times during the past two months I've contemplated laying this blog to rest. I have so many things I want to share with the 3 people who still follow it, yet finding the extra 5-10 minutes to document them has proven to be an insurmountable task. But every time I think of calling it quits, I find myself randomly clicking on blog entries dated two years ago and my mind becomes instantly flooded with memories of days that had long been forgotten. I have come to the realization that this blog is not so much for you all who read it (sorry to break it to you), but for me and my god-awful memory. Because I have blogged so little the past year, I realize that my mind will forever purge some of the greatest experiences we've had simply because I didn't take the time to write about them, and it makes me sad...and a little mad. I can't promise weekly updates, but I hope to post more frequently than I have been lately, even if it means waking up at the crack of dawn (wait, I already do that) or staying up late (hmmm...not happening). I will also rely heavily on my faithful buggers--Ashley Landfield and Wendy Auten--who are the first to admonish me for being blog-lazy. Thanks for keeping me in line, ladies.

Onward...

Let's see. The kids started a new school year 6 weeks ago. How's that for breaking news?


Kindergarten in a big school with big kids.
You've got this, kiddo!


Four-year-old Grows Ghetto Booty Overnight
(now that's a headliner!)


College football season started just after that.
(as did the grief given to me by my fellow Oklahoma State grads)



Then the real madness began. And it can be summed up in six words:

Soccer, Football, Dance, Swim, Karate, and Gymnastics

And now that mom has accepted the position of Vice President of the PTO, she's pretty much screwed in the Free Time department.

Needless to say, most of our days are spent in the car driving from one end of town to the other. But as of late, it's really one of my favorite places to be.

To quote Wyatt, "Mommy's new car is Bomb-bastic!"
Son, Mommy couldn't agree more.

We may be living life in the fast lane these days (pun intended), but we're having an absolute blast. Wyatt recently celebrated his 6th birthday (pictures coming soon...promise), and Avery has gone from a shy little caterpillar to a vibrant, outgoing, social butterfly who wants everything to do with her girlfriends and nothing at all to do with stinky boys (except her brother, whom she's adamant upon marrying one day). Oh yes, the girlish nightmare has begun. And so have the pedicures. Lord help us.


Back-to-School pedicure with with her friend, Peityn,
whom she gets to see every single day.
BFF's RULE!

And finally, the Tulsa State Fair is in town this week. Even though I am highly allergic to such mayhem, I couldn't pass up an opportunity to take my girl to Disney on Ice...a first for each of us. It too, was pretty "bomb-bastic!"


I'm definitely at a point in motherhood when it is starting to sink in that my kids are growing up on me. And fast. I've been spending a little more time lately tucking them in at bedtime and sneaking in as many butterfly kisses as they will allow.

Here's to another great week of making memories. And recording them. So that in two years when I think about calling it quits again, I'll have a plethora of reasons to reconsider.






A Unique BURPday Greeting
Sunday, August 14, 2011

Last week we celebrated Eric's birthday. This week we're celebrating Eric's birthday.

All because of a birthday card from Eric's parents. See for yourself.




I have a feeling we'll be celebrating Daddy's birthday for several more weeks. Or at least until school starts. Who knows, I may even have to make a call to America's Got Talent.








 



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My Wine Personality:
For the most part I’m a chardonnay, as I consider myself to exhibit a somewhat sunny and mellow disposition (most of the time), but because I find a tremendous amount of joy out of showering my two kids with hugs and kisses, I also possess the subtle sweetness often found in a riesling. But don’t be fooled. I love a great outdoor adventure and am willing to try anything once. This occasional display of boldness is thought to match that of a cabernet, whereas my appreciation for nature suggests that I have an earthy component to my personality—very characteristic of a merlot. (more)

 



“Wine rejoices the heart of man and joy is the mother of all virtues.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, 1771